got this from a bulletin post of my best friend, bes cni :)

thanks bes! i really like this message...especially that last night, i just realized that i should let go of someone. he made an impact in my life, he didn't know that through his actions helped me rise above my struggles...thank God that i have crossed paths with him. even for a brief moment that i've spent time with him, he made me realize (and again, without him knowing it...galing niya noh?) things that i should be doing for eternity.

but still...some things just come to an end inevitably. so many reasons can be a possibility why it'd happen, regrets might once in a while cross my mind, feel pity about what i've felt about him for the past months, but......i guess im gonna be ok with it.

time to move on...and again, i thank my best friend for giving me this piece of encouragement. hope you enjoy this one guys.

"finding the right person is very hard & very wrong.. it is best to be the right person for the one you love & start. from there you'll always end up disappointed when you set standards & define a right person for you and don't rush things coz somewhere, somehow God is preparing somebody for you."

Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationship bcoz you can never find love if you insist that you are already into it.

Try to find time to really understand your real feelings, to know who you really are, & what you really want in a relationship.

You're right, there's no such thing as a perfect relationship, but there's a compatible partnership that goes along with. If you already know that you're too big to fit into a small sized T-shirts, don't give it a try, you'll pretending you still have the same feelings. It's really hard to say goodbye though, but you can't make it any better by just pretending you still have the same feelings. Try to let go & give yourself a chance to live life to the fullest, give your heart a much needed attention, then you will find that you have made the right decision & you made it all by yourself.

We call it love when we can't leave someone & see them crying as we try to let go. We are wrong it's just a pity. We call it love when were to attached & think that losing the one we love will somehow make us weak & unable to face the storms of life, We misunderstood! Its just that were too dependent on them! We call it love when we give our whole life to them; the wholeness of us imagined that if they leave no one would accept us & our past. We are mistaken! Its just insecurity!

But no matter what the destination is the truth still remains that love isn't something you can buy or beg, it is real & existing, you can't touch it but you can feel it in your heart, you can't find it, but it will knock when you least expect it to come, it can make you the happiest soul in heaven but don't forget that it can also make you the most miserable person in the whole galaxy..